Everyone grows older and this is something you cannot reverse or hold on. And the biggest challenge one comes across in this stage of life is loneliness. If you or someone in your family is dealing with a similar situation, here is something really helpful. Read on.
What is your biggest fear of growing old?
If it is the feeling of being alone and unwanted, you aren’t all alone. Certainly, you cannot stop the ageing process as it is a cold, hard fact of life. But if you are alone in those years of life, it can be very difficult to maintain your emotional, psychological and even physical health. So, saying that ageing and loneliness affect people drastically.
But it is not a problem which is not destined to go away. Yes, it is possible to fight back loneliness. How?
Below are listed some tips and solution to help:
Understand the reason of loneliness:
It can be hard to imagine why in the cities of millions of people one feel lonely. The simplest answer would be in the huge sized cities the only thing people lack is time. If you check out for the history, say twenty years ago, people probably knew everyone who lived on their street. However, these days there are rare chances for you to know your next-door neighbours nicely. Hence, you need to first understand what is causing loneliness. It can be shyness or their unrealistic expectations. Ask them to get out often and meet people.
Maintain a positive body image
In a research, it was found that many older adults avoid social interaction just due to their poor body image. It might be attributable to being overweight or some other reason, which may decrease or cease interactions with their social networks. And this further leads to risk for social isolation. Hence, if you find them too self-conscious or embarrassed, which ultimately makes them less engaged in their social networks, you need to work on. You can start with compliments and positive comments to boost the self-esteem of seniors. With this, you can address the root problem by encouraging weight loss, say helping them with healthy eating and exercises.
Build up a sense of purpose
Your seniors need to live with a sense of purpose or hobbies which interest them. With this, they will be able to succumb the negative effects of social isolation. You can encourage them for anything which involves a group. Actually, when seniors are bereft of ideas for what to do in their life, they will stay busy and happy. Volunteering can be another great way of maintaining and expressing a sense of purpose. You need to provide them opportunities to volunteer and maintain their sense of purpose.
With these tips and solution, now it will be easy to avoid the feeling of being alone in the later years of life. Keep healthy, be safe, and enjoy every moment!
